We never observe or think about what other people have to go through. When things happen, especially when it is a bad news, we just choose to blame others. It's another tradition of human being (including me :X)hehe.... So the question: whose faults is that?
Well maybe both maybe NO one. People see things differently, and all of us have our own opinion and our own thinking. We can not control others' thinking, but for sure we can change our own thinking. I believe a lot of us know this concept, but why people refuse to apply it? Well, in my own opinion FEAR control everything. the fear in them/*us make us fear to confess that we are wrong and we don't want to confess our own mistake. And that feeling of fear need a lot of brave to overcome. I guess what we need is time. A time to rest and let us calm, so that we can think carefully the next step we should do. This might help us save a beautiful relationship and making us more understand other's feeling.
Don't make promise when you are in joy.
Don't reply when you are sad.
Don't take decision when you are angry.
Think twice, Act wise.
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